
"I've sat at over 500 IEP tables."
I'm Mary, a Special Education Advocate and the founder of The Advocate Ally. I created this special education resource because too many parents feel pressured to accept generic, "cookie-cutter" IEPs.
The guidance below is grounded in the same practical, document-based questions I raise in IEP meetings every day. Use it to ask for clearer, more individualized support for your child.
Mary
Founder, The Advocate Ally
What's Happening
The school is proposing to reduce your child's minutes of service, remove an accommodation, or change their placement. They may say the child is 'doing great' or 'making progress'—but progress doesn't automatically justify cutting services.
Your Legal Rights
A proposed service reduction should be supported by current evaluation and progress data. You can ask to see the data, state your disagreement, and review the dispute protections that apply in your state.
- The school must provide you a Prior Written Notice (PWN) before making any changes.
- You must give informed consent before any changes take effect.
- You have the right to see the data supporting the proposed reduction.
- You can invoke 'Stay Put,' which means the current IEP remains in effect during any dispute.
What To Do Right Now
Request the Prior Written Notice (PWN) explaining the proposed change and the data behind it.
Ask: 'What specific data demonstrates my child can sustain progress with less support?'
If you disagree, do NOT sign the new IEP. Your child stays on the current one under 'Stay Put.'
Request an IEP meeting to present your own data or request an Independent Educational Evaluation.
Don't Go Into This Blind
Before you send a letter or file a complaint, start with the written IEP. The audit can flag documented gaps, weak language, and sections that may deserve a written question or closer professional review.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can the school cut services without my permission?
What is 'Stay Put'?
What if my child IS doing better?
Review the document before you escalate
Upload your IEP to identify written sections that may need clarification, correction, or professional review.
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