
"I've sat at over 500 IEP tables."
I'm Mary, a Special Education Advocate and the founder of The Advocate Ally. I created this special education resource because too many parents feel pressured to accept generic, "cookie-cutter" IEPs.
The guidance below is grounded in the same practical, document-based questions I raise in IEP meetings every day. Use it to ask for clearer, more individualized support for your child.
Mary
Founder, The Advocate Ally
What's Happening
You've noticed your child loses skills over school breaks and takes weeks to recover when school resumes. You asked for Extended School Year (ESY) services, but the school denied them.
Your Legal Rights
ESY must be available when the IEP team determines, on an individual basis, that it is necessary for the child to receive FAPE. Regression and recoupment data may be relevant, but the decision should not be based on a single rule or disability category.
- The IEP team should make an individualized ESY determination when the student's needs indicate it may be necessary for FAPE.
- The IEP team cannot use a blanket policy to deny ESY (e.g., 'we don't offer ESY for that disability').
- You can provide your own data showing regression during breaks.
- If denied, the school must provide a Prior Written Notice (PWN) with their reasoning.
What To Do Right Now
Collect data: track your child's skills before, during, and after school breaks (use checklists, work samples, videos).
Request the school's regression/recoupment data—they should be measuring this already.
If they deny ESY, request PWN and ask: 'What objective data did the team use to determine ESY is not needed?'
File a state complaint if the denial lacks data support.
Don't Go Into This Blind
Before you send a letter or file a complaint, start with the written IEP. The audit can flag documented gaps, weak language, and sections that may deserve a written question or closer professional review.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is ESY?
What counts as 'regression'?
Can a school limit ESY to certain disabilities?
Review the document before you escalate
Upload your IEP to identify written sections that may need clarification, correction, or professional review.
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