
"I've sat at over 500 IEP tables."
I'm Mary, a Special Education Advocate and the founder of The Advocate Ally. I created this special education resource because too many parents feel pressured to accept generic, "cookie-cutter" IEPs.
The guidance below is grounded in the same practical, document-based questions I raise in IEP meetings every day. Use it to ask for clearer, more individualized support for your child.
Mary
Founder, The Advocate Ally
What's Happening
You've requested that occupational therapy, physical therapy, speech-language therapy, or counseling be added to your child's IEP, but the school says the child doesn't need it.
Your Legal Rights
Under IDEA, 'related services' are any developmental, corrective, or supportive services needed to help a child benefit from special education. If the need exists, the school must provide it.
- Related services are defined broadly under IDEA (34 CFR §300.34).
- The school must evaluate in all areas of suspected disability—including those requiring related services.
- You can request an evaluation for a specific related service at any time.
- If the school denies, you can request an IEE for that specific service area.
What To Do Right Now
Request an evaluation in the specific area (e.g., 'I formally request an occupational therapy evaluation').
If denied without evaluation, request PWN explaining why the evaluation isn't warranted.
If evaluated and denied, ask: 'How is FAPE being provided without this service?'
Request an Independent Evaluation in the specific discipline.
Don't Go Into This Blind
Before you send a letter or file a complaint, start with the written IEP. The audit can flag documented gaps, weak language, and sections that may deserve a written question or closer professional review.
Frequently Asked Questions
What counts as a 'related service'?
Does a medical diagnosis guarantee a service?
What if the school says they 'don't have a therapist'?
Review the document before you escalate
Upload your IEP to identify written sections that may need clarification, correction, or professional review.
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